My
husband and I recently separated after he finally admitted to having affairs,
we have two gorgeous little boys. My husband is just at the angry phase right
now and always blames me for everything. He thinks he is justified in having affairs.
I don't know what to do right now, please offer any advice. Thanks. Laiwa

Why
Showing Affection is Important
If
you want your spouse to feel special with you, you need to do more than rote displays
of affection. What you will want to do is combine ways of showing your spouse
how much you care about him or her.
For
example, instead of simply giving your spouse a peck on the cheek before you go
to work and saying "I love you" before you fall asleep, you might skip
the kiss in the morning and leave her a love note instead.
Then
you could call or send a text message during the day simply to say you are thinking
of her. You might stick with saying "I love you" before bed, or you
might add a rub on the shoulders or a nice long hug to deepen your message.
The
next day you could do some of these same things, add other methods for showing
affection, or change your program completely. What you do really depends on your
own tastes and the way your relationship works.
The
key here is to drop the stale routine and combine different ways of communicating--you
could use the lists above to help you get started. Once you begin, it's not so
hard to develop fresh and dynamic expressions of how much you care.
It's
easy to see why changing your routine this way adds a whole layer of meaning to
your displays of affection. Showing your spouse that you care in a more dynamic
engaged way sends him or her the message that you really are putting effort into
your marriage. You want your spouse to feel special in your eyes and in your expressions.
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I
have been married to my husband for almost 2 yrs, we have been together for a
total of 4. I have left him several times, and go back.He tells me we will go
to counseling,he will stop drinking, (everyday!) and that he loves me more than
anything and can't live without me. He is very emotionally, and mentally abusive.
Doesn't want or let me work outside of the home, Is very jealous of my 2 grown
children, and other family members,even my 90yr old grandmother. He say's he should
come before anyone in my life,including my kids!I've never been unfaithful to
him, but yet he acuses me of doing terrible things.and calling me names, putting
me down on a daily basis. He wants sex 2or3 times a day, and when I don't want
to, he tells me I selfcentered and only care about myself, or say's(u have been
with someone else) He is the most insecure person I have ever known, I used to
feel so good about myself. When we met I owned my own hm, car, and had a full
time job making great $.
How in the world can I take my life back and truly
be happy again/ I have lost myself and all my courage, I feel so helpless. Don't
want to lose the trust of my kids for staying in this mess! They are so tired
of seeing me this way. They worry about me each minute of everyday. I would pay
for this advise, but, he controlls all the money as well. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!
Natalie
My
husband had an affair and I want to make sure that it's over. I want to use the
Call Recorder Card advertised on your site to record his cell phone calls. I want
to be absolutely secret about this, and I'm afraid there will be a beep or click,
or the forwarded calls will show up on the phone bill, or something else to give
it away. Can you tell me if it is completely stealth? Crystal
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Briefly, my husband uses a Palm Treo to communicate with "his" world,
and I have no idea how to "track" these events. Is there a way I can
find where/what he is Text Messaging? Sydny