Cheating Husband Stories

I found out my husband of 11 years was having an affair. He is 34 and she is 18. He met her at work-- she asked for a ride home and they started going to lunch. He took her fishing and they had sex. I confronted him and he said it was nothing. I put a tracker in his vehicle and found out where she lived and caught them there. He claims it is over. I am still having a hard time getting over the trust issues. I am also worried because they had unprotected sex. Every time we talk about it, he explodes and we end up fighting. I am not sure what to do. Chris

I have been married for 14 years, always trusted my husband, had no jealousy issues. Last year he said he wanted to seperate, then much to my surprise the other woman came out. We have been working thru the problems, I know he cares for me. Is it odd that I am not interested in the details between them? I am upset enough that she even existed. Mollie

I don't see how I can get my spouse off the computer. He needs it to work. He is self employed and order's on line. He needs it to work. He has lot's of time while I am at work. He refuses to let me see his emails. Yet I have broken into his e-mail account and he continues to post his profile in places like Match.com. I don't think he dates these women as he is always with me in the evenings. He said he only
wants to talk to these woman because he is bored. He goes into porn sites, chat rooms etc. He makes these woman think he is single and out to find a good woman to spend his life with him. He said this is a past time and a game to him. Sylvia

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My husband and I recently separated after he finally admitted to having affairs, we have two gorgeous little boys. My husband is just at the angry phase right now and always blames me for everything. He thinks he is justified in having affairs. I don't know what to do right now, please offer any advice. Thanks. Laiwa

I found out last night my husband has been e-mailing and texting a woman. I spoke to her and she said he has said he was divorced. Should I contact her again to find out information as he might be lying when he says nothing happened. I am so confused and angry I don't know what to do for the best. Karen

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Then you could call or send a text message during the day simply to say you are thinking of her. You might stick with saying "I love you" before bed, or you might add a rub on the shoulders or a nice long hug to deepen your message.

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I had been married to my husband for 1 year, been together 4 years. We had a 2 year old daughter and a son due in 3 weeks when I found out he had an affair. He was away at a military school for training and the other women was also married and there for school. When I found out I started smoking again, and I didn't eat or sleep (remember I was 9 months pregnant)and I couldn't take care of my daughter. I also found out the other women was also pregnant, I am still not sure as to whom the father is -my husband, or hers. During the next couple of months I wasn't sure what I wanted to do since my emotions were pretty out of wack from the pregnancy. He didn't treat me as though he wanted me. He continued talking to the girl and would tell me stuff like "he was never happy with me anyways" and that I "could never make a man happy". now he is away again and I try not to talk to him, only when I have to for the kids. He sends me presents and calls all the time leaving me messages that he has changed. He said that that was the old him and he will never be that way again. I don't know if I should believe him and give it another chance. I can't go through something like that again, not just the affair but also the way he has always treated me. Shana

My husband had an affair and I want to make sure that it's over. I want to use the Call Recorder Card advertised on your site to record his cell phone calls. I want to be absolutely secret about this, and I'm afraid there will be a beep or click, or the forwarded calls will show up on the phone bill, or something else to give it away. Can you tell me if it is completely stealth? Crystal

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Briefly, my husband uses a Palm Treo to communicate with "his" world, and I have no idea how to "track" these events. Is there a way I can find where/what he is Text Messaging? Sydny