Internet
Infidelity Prevention Guidelines Move
the computer into a public place where you are likely to be i.e. the corner of
your living room, set up a small desk.
Utilize the internet NOW for only
important usage -- If they have to be on the net for banking, etc. stay in the
same room with them, i.e. supervised computer use. Get
them involved in real life physical activities outdoors or hobbies and reading.
Find a replacement for the net activities such as playing games, cards, etc. Remember
they are an addict so you will have to find them fun ideas for replacement:: Leisure
and Sports
Activities that require a certain amount of skill: bike riding,
horse riding, surfing. etc. Activities that provides solitude: fishing, gardening,
athletics, swimming, surfing, bushwalking, camping. Hobbies
and Interests
Any hobby that requires research, analysis, planning, experimenting.
Anything that presents interest and challenge --> educational pursuits, creative
activities.
Don't let them use the internet when they are feeling uncomfortable, stressed,
irritated, mad or sad about something happening in their life.
Get them
off the net as soon as possible. Nuture their success and pat them on the back.
Keep in mind they have to want to change their behaviour so that you are able
to trust them again. Do they understand how it began, became a problem in the
first place and what they did was such a problem to you? They have to totally
accept what they have done and take ownership for the damage they have caused.
Get your partner to come to an agreement about this issue and hold up to their
end of the deal.
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Both spouses should agree to leave the Spector software on their computer temporarily
until the spouse can feel more secure.
Although
I recommend the Spector software to find out if they are cheating, it is imperative
that both partners seek an understanding as to why his/her is behaving this way.
Often, if there is an affair it could be a symptom of other problems
in the marriage, so the person is confused on what he or she really wants. Therapy
is most effective when both partners are committed to rebuilding the trust and
communication hurt by the affair if you as a couple are willing to work at the
marriage or relationship. Select a counselor who understands internet infidelity
-- it isn't a playboy magazine story. This is important - be selective. If you
are going for therapy tell the truth, even if you know more than your spouse reveals.
Recover
Passwords Behind Asterisks ******
Tip
of the Month: Spying
on a cheating spouse may be an honest attempt to bring resolution to the relationship.
You want to know the truth. You sense something does not fit. You suspect there
is a breach of something. You want to know what you are up against. You are not
willing to stand pat and wait. You are a person of action. You want some sort
of movement. You want to get on with the relationship. You want to get on with
your life. You know that it is difficult maintaining your sanity when there might
be this huge elephant that no one is talking about. You want to know the truth,
face the truth, deal with the truth and be free. Dr.Bob's
info on spying on Cheating Spouse | 
