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Stop
Porn - Kick Porn
by Tess Marshall
Every porn addict suffers from self- hatred and shame. You are a worthy person
worthy of a good life. Your addiction doesn't define who you are God does!
If you really
knew me you wouldn't love me. You are a loving and lovable regardless of the role
porn addiction has played in your life. Love is unconditional. You are loved in
spite of your past.
I can't depend on anyone else to meet my needs. Others care about you and want
to help you. You can kick porn and reach out for support. God is bigger than your
problems and addiction.
I'm
a failure and I'm afraid to change. You can begin again right now, this moment.
Tell yourself, "I have the power and desire to change my life. I can do this!"
Sex is the number one need in my life. Sex in porn is about lust. It lacks loving
and caring qualities. The most important need in your life is a healthy relationship
with God, yourself and others. Sex is a part of a healthy relationship. Without
love sex is meaningless.
You hate your life but don't believe you can kick porn. You've promised yourself
over and over you'd quit. You can't get the images out of your head. You are constantly
planning your next "fix." You wonder if you'll ever get your life in
order. News flash: With God nothing is impossible!
Your
Power Lies In The Present Moment...
Take Back Your Life Today! My
goal is to help you kick porn and empower you to live a happy and successful life!
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Do You Know the 3 Needs All Humans Have In Common? Give
up? 1) The need
to be loved.
2) The need to give love.
3) The need to know you matter. Does
that sound like you? You
need these three things more than anything else in the world. You won't get them
from porn. Changing
the way you look at life and changing the way you think about life can mean an
end to the insanity and a promise of freedom. Change
Your Lifestyle, Change Your Focus, Stop your Pain and Problems! Know
that you are enough, you are lovable and you are adequate. Separate
your addiction from the person you are. You are no better or worse than anyone
else. Everyone has issues. Everyone is in some kind of pain struggling with some
type of problem. Everyone
is imperfect. Everyone has flaws, faults and failures. All humans are afflicted.
There is no perfect person, relationship or family. Knowing
this will help you become more comfortable with yourself. It takes a lot of energy
to hide your weaknesses. It's liberating to know you are not alone. It's liberating
to say, "I'm OK. But right now I need help."
Take
your first step today to freedom from porn--confidential help and
discussion forum for men and wives.
Courtesy:
Tess Marshall, www.kickporn.com
End
Your Internet Porn Addiction learning
more about sexual and online addictions in general and understanding treatment
plans will help you take an active role in your husband’s work towards a
pornography-free life again. You must fight his addiction head-on as he will likely
deny any wrong-doings unless you demonstrate your ability to see through the charades.
Please note: The suggestions
and advice offered on this web site are opinions only and are not to be used in
the place of professional psychological counseling or medical advice. If you or
someone close to you is currently in crisis or in an emergency situation, contact
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